Custom Placemat Map to Grandparents House

My grandchildren are in Wisconsin, and I’m in northern California.  For the 1st 4 yrs. of #1 granddaughters life she lived in the same city as her paternal grandparents, and was able to spend alot of quality time with them.  I wasn’t so lucky, but fortunately I’m able to visit at least every 3 – 4 months.   I remember talking to her about how I would love to see her more often, like her other grandparents do. I would
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Vegetarian Child In a Family of Meat Eaters

Adopting a vegetarian lifestyle approximately 15 years ago, my oldest daughter continues to hear this comment from her 90 yr. old grandmother, (my mom)…“Oh honey, just a little bit of chicken won’t hurt!!”  She was in her early 20′s when she made the decision to embrace vegetarianism, and was no longer living at home.  At times during her childhood (as my picky eater) if she had the option of choosing her own meals, spaghetti, pizza and mac and cheese would
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Grandparent’s Motivator to Exercise and Stay Healthy

I don’t like to exercise.  I look at runners with as much curiosity as I do looking at Donald Trumps hair.  ”WHAT’s with THAT!?” I was born into a family of 3 sisters who are very active.  The “largest” wears a sz. 6.  Do you feel my pain? I’m challenged to maintain my sz. 10 status the way the Kardashian girls are challenged to miss a day in the media. The only exercise I actually LIKE is water aerobics, and
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Valentines Day Bouquets For A Special Grandchild?

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Flowers are special to grandmothers, daughters, AND granddaughters. Surprise that special grandchild with her (or his) 1st bouquet!

Gender Stereotypes: Forget the Pink is for Girls and Blue is for Boys

As babies and toddlers my daughters had trains, trucks  Legos and blocks as well as dolls and mini-kitchenettes to play with.  My elderly in-laws found it somewhat unusual but joined the girls on the floor, happily creating Lego structures.    I can’t remember why I felt so strongly that they be exposed to playthings long considered “boy” toys. My focus always seemed to be providing pathways for them to explore that would provide an opportunity for them to reach their
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Know When To Hold Em, and Know When to Scold Em

Discipline and grandchildren.  Touchy subject? Who makes the call when the grandparents are visiting?  How about when the kids are at grandma and grandpa’s house? It’s not always easy, and I’m not always effective at it but my personal mantra is that my daughter and son-in-law call the shots.  I’m a “Far Away” grandparent, so it’s rare they’re at our house.  I’m there every 3-4 months, and my feeling is that if I’m going against the rules their parents have
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Toy Selection Reference Website Can Prove Invaluable For Parents and Grandparents

  Choosing a toy for my grandchildren is always a challenge.  As a “Far Away” grandparent, I don’t have the luxury of being with them weekly or monthly to observe them playing.  I usually need to interrogate their parents for ideas about what types of toys they like to play with at any given moment. What’s popular isn’t particularly interesting to me as a grandparent.  My focus is generally in the  play value of a toy, and how appropriate it may
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Granny Is My “Wing Man” Cross-Generational Online Dating Exploits

Sharing online dating stories with your grandchild?  Kibbutzing over whose blind date was more outrageous, yours or your granddaughters? This is my DREAM!  This is how I motivate myself to exercise in the morning people!  I want to be around in 20 yrs.  when my grandchildren are old enough to understand how full of wisdom I am, (because certainly my daughters, their mom and aunt haven’t figured it out yet).  Experiencing moments like the two main characters in the blog
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